Comments on: Tatiana http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/ Violence UnSilenced: Shedding light on domestic violence and sexual abuse/assault by giving survivors a voice. Fri, 30 Jul 2010 20:19:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0 By: Katharine http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-9289 Katharine Sun, 21 Mar 2010 20:26:36 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-9289 ""The stench is a tall glass of spoiled milk he’s hidden in the cracked entertainment center. He pours it over me, from head to toe."" My jaw dropped while reading this. ""“You’re so fucking ugly. I hate your nose. Wear this hat while you suck my cock so I don’t have to look down and see you.”" OHMYGOD! I can understand why his mother and father never helped you..they raised this abuser! I'm sorry, Tatiana. I'm thankful you left him (?) "I am your God, I will never leave you nor forsake you.." Hebrews 3:5 I hope you feel God blessing you. Love, Kat “”The stench is a tall glass of spoiled milk he’s hidden in the cracked entertainment center. He pours it over me, from head to toe.”"

My jaw dropped while reading this.

“”“You’re so fucking ugly. I hate your nose. Wear this hat while you suck my cock so I don’t have to look down and see you.””

OHMYGOD!

I can understand why his mother and father never helped you..they raised this abuser!

I’m sorry, Tatiana.
I’m thankful you left him (?)
“I am your God, I will never leave you nor forsake you..” Hebrews 3:5
I hope you feel God blessing you.

Love,

Kat

]]> By: Becky http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-8799 Becky Fri, 19 Feb 2010 08:41:33 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-8799 Wow, just....wow. I am so amazed that you managed to get away from all that, and bless your mother for helping you out. I don't know what else to say, other than that you should remind yourself every day of how strong you are, and how tough it is, day by day, just living with the past. I hope you can move forward successfully, and be truly happy :) No one deserves to be treated that way, and it is just incredible to be able to help yourself when even other people looked the other way. You should be so proud of yourself. Wow, just….wow. I am so amazed that you managed to get away from all that, and bless your mother for helping you out. I don’t know what else to say, other than that you should remind yourself every day of how strong you are, and how tough it is, day by day, just living with the past. I hope you can move forward successfully, and be truly happy :) No one deserves to be treated that way, and it is just incredible to be able to help yourself when even other people looked the other way. You should be so proud of yourself.

]]> By: humpsNbump http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-8551 humpsNbump Wed, 17 Feb 2010 03:41:56 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-8551 I'm so glad that your are telling your story and no longer living it. You are so strong for walking away. ~ humps I’m so glad that your are telling your story and no longer living it. You are so strong for walking away.

~ humps

]]> By: Tricia (irishsamom) http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-8550 Tricia (irishsamom) Wed, 17 Feb 2010 03:20:43 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-8550 Happy Birthday sweet lady. You are courageous and brave to get out of there. Your description brought tears streaming down my cheeks as much for the words that he used, as for the hands that he hit and bullied with. You are a true survivor and are amazing. Never forget that. You will undoubtedly help countless others by writing your story. Thank you Love and strength and hope, Tricia xox Happy Birthday sweet lady. You are courageous and brave to get out of there. Your description brought tears streaming down my cheeks as much for the words that he used, as for the hands that he hit and bullied with. You are a true survivor and are amazing. Never forget that. You will undoubtedly help countless others by writing your story.

Thank you
Love and strength and hope,
Tricia xox

]]> By: Funmi http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-8200 Funmi Thu, 28 Jan 2010 03:24:40 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-8200 “I’ll never kill you. You aren’t worth going to jail for.” That got me... No one should ever have to hear that. It's so cold and malicious... Making death seem like a welcome option that one is not even worthy of... No one should ever have to hear that. I am truly happy for you and the healing you have achieved. “I’ll never kill you. You aren’t worth going to jail for.”

That got me… No one should ever have to hear that. It’s so cold and malicious… Making death seem like a welcome option that one is not even worthy of… No one should ever have to hear that. I am truly happy for you and the healing you have achieved.

]]> By: Laurie http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-8104 Laurie Sat, 16 Jan 2010 00:10:11 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-8104 Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. No one deserves that. Especially you. You are special...you have a gift...a voice. It is wonderful of you to use it. Oh sweetie, I am so sorry. No one deserves that. Especially you. You are special…you have a gift…a voice. It is wonderful of you to use it.

]]> By: Jean http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-8050 Jean Thu, 14 Jan 2010 03:35:06 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-8050 Wishing you nothing but peace and happiness. Thank heaven you left him. You didn't deserve that. Thanks for sharing. Wishing you nothing but peace and happiness. Thank heaven you left him. You didn’t deserve that. Thanks for sharing.

]]> By: TigereyeSal http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-8037 TigereyeSal Tue, 12 Jan 2010 18:13:10 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-8037 Good girl! Well done- for sharing, and for getting out. Good girl! Well done- for sharing, and for getting out.

]]> By: janice canfield http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-7995 janice canfield Fri, 08 Jan 2010 16:27:17 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-7995 Hello from Texas! I think that you are a very brave person! I had physical abuse from my step father from the time I was one year old, until I was sixteen years old. Thanks to him I have always been afraid of men, which does not make for good relationships as an adult. He used to get drunk and beat me, the last time he did that, I was sixteen. I told my mother, if he hits me again, I will pick up a brick or anything I can get my hands on and hit him in the head with it! I guess she told him, because he never tried it again. By then it was too late, I ran away from home three times as a teenager to get away from! I also got mixed up with guys that were abuser. You tend to go for guys that will abuse you if you have been abused. I am older and wiser now, I will never let anybody abuse me again! Thank you for listening to me! Janey from Texas Hello from Texas! I think that you are a very brave person! I had physical abuse from my step father from the time I was one year old, until I was sixteen years old. Thanks to him I have always been afraid of men, which does not make for good relationships as an adult. He used to get drunk and beat me, the last time he did that, I was sixteen. I told my mother, if he hits me again, I will pick up a brick or anything I can get my hands on and hit him in the head with it! I guess she told him, because he never tried it again. By then it was too late, I ran away from home three times as a teenager to get away from! I also got mixed up with guys that were abuser. You tend to go for guys that will abuse you if you have been abused. I am older and wiser now, I will never let anybody abuse me again! Thank you for listening to me! Janey from Texas

]]> By: Maria @BOREDmommy http://violenceunsilenced.com/tatiana/#comment-7990 Maria @BOREDmommy Thu, 07 Jan 2010 21:59:10 +0000 http://violenceunsilenced.com/?p=932#comment-7990 Tatiana, I don't know what to say. You are beyond courageous. Tatiana, I don’t know what to say. You are beyond courageous.

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